Tuesday, May 24, 2011

bring back the social psychology :)

Since i've got nothing to do lately( just staying at home doing nothing, bcos of the longgggg semester break). I was suddenly thinking bout one of my killer subject, back when i was doing my foundation in Kedah.Social Psychology. Most of my friends hate this subject. But its kinda interesting though. And one chapter attract my attention; Interpersonal Attraction and Close Relationships. And it mostly about LOVE. Love is an emotional reaction that seems as basic as anger, sadness, happiness, and fear. Now, let me apply this in our basic situations.
"What is love?". Most people I know offered answer like this; "Love is offering the last bite". "Love is when you look at your partner when they first wake up and still think they are beautiful". "Love is like an elevator, you can ride it to the top or end up in the basement, but eventually you'll choose which floor to get off".Whatever you think what love is all about, we come back to one thing; love is a most wonderful part in our life. Who doesnt want to live without love? So, if you have someone who loved u or u love, appreciate them.
Many people fall in love, but no one ever seems to have fallen in friendship.I think its good if we can be a good lover as well as friend to our bf/gf. Passionate love can be said as, "falling head over heels in love". A person in love is preoccupied with the loved one and can think about little else.(wait, i think this type of love is not for me). For example, one couple,they love each other, tolerate, and  have a healthy relationship.In contrast, unrequited love is love felt by one person for another who does not feel love in return.(yes, i think this suits me well). haha.As we can see, this common situation often happened, when you love someone too much but he/she doesnt love u dat much and never appreciate u.well, there's a lot types of love, as we can see, but one thing for sure, and the most vital part is, love is one of the most powerful feelings of which we are capable and it involves caring and commitment too.

Enough with this social psychology thingy.i think i had said enough.After all, this will always become one of my favorite subject. :)

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